The Lucy Ann Lance Show

Frank Rubino ~ On The Couch - Adult children and Parents

Episode Summary

October 16, 2024 ~ Lucy Ann Lance talks with Psychotherapist Frank Rubino for this week's On The Couch. They discuss the evolving dynamics between adult children and their aging parents, focusing on the challenges and changes in their roles. Psychotherapist Frank Rubino highlights that many parents struggle to adjust to their children’s adulthood, often maintaining control rather than adopting an advisory role, which can create tension, especially during adolescence when children seek independence. As parents age, issues related to parenting styles, decision-making, and finances become prominent, necessitating psychological adaptation from both sides. Open and respectful communication is crucial, with an emphasis on engaging in curious dialogue rather than imposing opinions, fostering understanding and reducing conflict.